If i had to lean to one side, after him telling BEV he loves her repeatedly, hes a jerk.

Loving a person is one thing,,,being in love with a person is totally different.Andy just said that on Tv,and that is why he choose the right girl.He did love Bevin,but he was IN love with Tessa.If you know the difference between the two loves,you will understand his decision.Besides,there is a lot that goes on behind the scenes that is not shown on tv.

I will probably never watch the Bachelor again!! He's a dirtbag for doing that. He led Bevin on and I hope his life with Tessa sucks.

Sorry, but when I fell in love with my husband I didn't kiss other men. He is a complete jerk for leading Bevin to think she had a serious chance at that point.

I agree that loving someone and being in love w/ someone is 2 different things, but Andy did lead Bevin on big time. He lead a lot of the women on. You cannot go on a show and say you are a gentleman when you totally grope, caress, and passionately kiss each woman and make her feel like she is absolutely the one, especially when you know who you really want. A real man (gentleman) with true character would not have done all the things Andy did for the cameras. He has no integrity or dignity. Think about it, if he were really this amazing gentleman, he would not have to find love on a TV show.
He is a JERK.
I also have to add, I feel bad for Tessa; how must she have felt after seeing the entire show. Seeing Andy tell Bevin all of the same exact things he said to her. Kissing Bevin and the others just as passionately as he kissed her (if not more). There was no difference. And that is not love. If I were in Tessa's position (in which I would never be) and I saw the entire season after he chose me, I would not believe him for a second. There is no trust there, because of how they came together.

Get real,,this a tv show.He did not know untill the last that he was really in love with Tessa.The love he felt for Bevin was physical because she put herself out there.Being on this show,you will kiss many.I didn't write the show or make the rules,this is how it is done.

I 100 % agree. He totally lead Bevin on. That was heartless.

Are you a dude? Because if you are, that would explain your ignorance in this matter. If you are a female, you are oblivious as well. You mean to tell me that people don't know how they feel? He has even been on talk shows stating he knew from the beginning who he wanted. Bottom line, he is a jerk and he lead Bevin on in a way he didn't have to. All of the last women put themselves out there not just Bevin. As I remember when it came down to spending the night w/ Andy, They (all 3 ladies) all said yes, but Bevin was the only one who made it clear that she was staying to talk and to get to know him better. I wonder what happened w/ him all of the ladies on those nights behind closed doors. Tessa will be wondering that, I'm sure. you get real, it is a tv show and he knew exactly who he wanted right away,as anyone would, and he has admitted to that. The guy is a jerk!

You have my vote, big time! He was the BIGGEST jerk of all the bachelors. At least none of the others told any of the women that they loved them before the FRC. If that was ABC's idea, shame on them, and shame on him either way for going along with it. T.V. program or not, you do not play with peoples emotions and feelings! He and Tessa deserve each other, apparently she doen't know who she loves until the end of the show either????!!!!!!